Monday, April 13, 2015

Social Butterfly

It's no surprise that my baby girl is a little social butterfly.  She had two good friends celebrate their birthdays this past weekend.  Both sweet friends turned 8!  

This was from the party on Saturday night.  She was invited to sleepover night with one other girl.  Sis was super excited and very nervous because she hasn't been to a sleepover with other girls, just the friend who's house she's staying at.


Ra was the ONLY boy at the party and he was a good sport.  He let the birthday girl dress him up and was a real trooper.

He later picked up her toy guitar and started playing it to the rock music that the adults were rocking out to in the kitchen.  He's such a good boy to tolerate all the girlie overload in a girl only house!

Sis had a little bit of a sleepover hangover but not too bad.  She had another party to go to Sunday afternoon.  Tay's party was so much fun but sadly Sis had to sit out of a few activities because of her cast.  She couldn't do the tug, war or the water balloons or the still rings in the tree.  She did enjoy the slack line, the arts and crafts as well as the sidewalk chalk drawings!  Tay planned her party herself and did a great job and Sis was so excited to help her celebrate her birthday!  We've been friends with her family since Ra was 3.  He and Tay's brother have been friends for over 7 years!

Needless to say, she was worn out Sunday night.  I put her to bed early but Monday morning was rough.  She turned off her alarm and went back to sleep!  I actually let her have part of a soda to give her a little caffeine boost to get her ready for school in time!

She is so blessed with such sweet friends.  She was upset to leave her friends in Utah, but God has provided some incredible girls to help her navigate through life.


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Bloom Where You Are Planted


We've been finding beauties like this ever since I planted all of those strawberry plants.  To me, this is like finding unexpected joy whenever I walk out to the garden.  I love seeing our garden grow!



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Break It To Me Gently

On Wednesday afternoon I was in the shower getting ready for a funeral of one of Andy's employees and the son-in-law of dear friends when the phone rings.  I debated getting out to see who it was.  I figured it was either Andy or my mom, but then that mom guilt kicked in, what if it's the school?  Nah!  It can't be the school, the kids are getting out in about an hour so whatever it is, it can wait.  

Sure enough, I got out of the shower to find a voice mail from the school informing me that Sis broke her arm at recess.  What?!?  Talk about a mom's intuition!  That was exactly what I worried about!

I call the school back and let them know I'm on my way and quickly get dressed, grab a hat since my hair is soaking wet and make sure I have my insurance card, phone and keys and head out the door.  I get to school and Miss Laura has arranged for both kid to leave with me so I could take Sis to the dr.  I had called the peds office on the way to school so they could advise me.  They said to bring her in as soon as I can get there.  

Andy was with his boss and his CEO on their way to the funeral so I texted him a short message about what happened so he wouldn't be surprised later that night.  

Here's my little trooper waiting at the doc's to get orders for X-rays.  She didn't shed one tear at school or at the dr.

We got her splinted up and headed out for X-rays.  Sure enough, the radiologist came out and confirmed that she did indeed have a fracture to her radius.  

All broken bones and injuries deserve a sweet treat so we stopped at Rita's for custard on the way home.  This poor kid needs a break from injuries!  She wrecked on her bike and got road rash and a sprained toe, then had her 2 front teeth pulled and now has broken her arm all in less than a month's time!  The only time she cried was when I tucked her in bed and the reality of not being able to do any gymnastics until it healed opened up the waterworks.  

I kept her home with me on Thursday because I didn't want anyone to bump her arm with just a splint.  We needed the swelling to go down so she could possibly get a cast at the orthopedist.  Thankfully she wasn't in any pain, but she was terribly frustrated by her limited mobility.  I got the call from our peds office that they set up an ortho appt for her later that day.  

We spent the day relaxing, watching movies, snoozing and snuggling before heading to see if she needed a cast and determine if her growth plate was damaged in the injury.  Thankfully the doc said it should be an easy heal.  He put her in a pink cast and said he'd see us back in 3 weeks.  Hopefully it will be healed and she can return to her normal activities.

She can't write very well since it's her right hand, but she did make me this...


The swelling decreased a lot over the 24 hours between her fracture and having her cast put on.  Here are her BEFORE pictures.

It was difficult to get the right angle to show the displacement.  It was very obvious on Wednesday when I picked her up from school.


Here is her beautiful AFTER picture - still smiling through the entire ordeal.  

After we got her cast on, we stopped by gymnastics to see her friends and coaches.  Her teammates took over her cast and everyone signed it.  She loved seeing everyone and getting a little extra attention!  We are so thankful for her new gym and the way she's been accepted and loved in such a short period of time.

We arrived back at home to find her teacher had come by with a special delivery.  She left us her homework folder that I requested along with special notes from her classmates and a Sweet Pete's lollipop to cheer her up and let her know how much she is missed.  We are so blessed with such caring people to love on our baby girl.

Sugar is the way to this girls heart for sure!

She had her first big meltdown on Thursday night after her cast was put on.  She wanted it off, was in tears, it was too tight, it was itchy, etc.  I had to give her a "luxurious" bath to calm her down.  Some warm water, some oils, a nice head massage while I washed her hair...That seemed to calm her down. Because of her frustration level, I decided to keep her home on Friday as well.  We did some of her school work then took a walk to Lillie's for some tea and sunshine.  

We can't walk by Miss Toni's without stopping to enjoy the swing in her front yard.

Later in the day on Friday, Mr and Mrs Benz, who's son-in-law's funeral I missed, stopped by to see Sissy.  They had heard that I missed coming because Sis broke her arm and Jim got some chocolates from Peterbrooke to cheer her up.  Sis just adores Jim and they have created a special bond.  To make things better, they were in their convertible Porsche and offered to take the kids for a spin.  Both kids were in Heaven!  Andy threatened to eat her chocolate so she put this note on the bag.  It's supposed to read Keep Out Daddy.  Andy told her keep was spelled "ceep!"  lol!  She wrote it left handed which makes it even more cute!

Our doorbell rang on Saturday afternoon and when we opened it, we were surprised by Ms. Eppler, Sissy's classroom aide from the past two years.  Ms. Eppler is super special to us.  We go to the same church and Sis looks for her every Sunday in hopes of getting an extra hug.  Ms. Eppler was the person Sis went to when she got hurt at recess.  She brought Sis this beautiful bouquet of flowers to cheer her up.  We are so blessed with such loving and caring adults who invest in our kids.  Nothing makes you feel successful as a parent as when other adults who spend just as much time with your kids as you do, let you know how special your child is to them. 

Today she's back at school trying to figure out how to write and do all the things she use to do with ease.  Thankfully she's surrounded by wonderful adults who are flexible and understanding.  Now, if we can just get through the next 3 weeks without any other problems, it will be nothing short of a miracle!


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Tuesday, April 7, 2015

He is Risen!

Easter is a very special holiday in our family.  Because Jesus fulfilled the prophesy by dying on the cross and rising on the 3rd day, we can trust God's word and his promises of eternity with him.  Easter Sunday is a day of celebration and rejoicing.  

We went to church on Saturday night with the kids instead of Sunday morning.  There were 695 kids in NewGen!  It was packed!  By so many families going on Sat night, it freed up a lot of space for new families to have a seat on Sunday at all of the 4 services.  

My parents sent the kids cards with money for their trip to DC next month as well as something special for each of them.  Mom made a skirt for Sis made from material that she colored when we visited last month.  She made Ra some toffee cookies which he LOVED!  He's just like his daddy and mom knows the way to his heart!

After I tucked Sissy in bed on Saturday, I found this note outside her door to the "Ester bunny."  It was so sweet!  She even included a picture of her and the bunny and asked him to put love in the house!

The kids were thrilled with their baskets.  We don't really do candy for Easter like some families do - we don't need the sugar and Ra can't have much of it anyway.  I did make sure they each got one Reese's egg which they devoured immediately!  Both kids got Steamboat Mickey/Minnie stuffed animals they wanted from Disney.  They each got a new book.  Ra got some new socks, sneaker deodorizers, and a Philadelphia Eagles sweatshirt.  Sis got new chapstick, sidewalk chalk and a bike seat for her American Girl dolls.  


On Easter, we had 2 of our friends over for dinner.  Ra's best friend and his family came over and another friend (who is a girl and we think is his crush) came over with her family.  V & Ra have been in the same class for the past 3 years and her mom and I have become great friends.  V has a younger sister who is a year older than K and those two have become thick as thieves.  It was wonderful to have other families to celebrate with us.  Kev's family use to adopt us and we are now paying it forward to friends who don't have family to celebrate with at holidays.  We had a fantastic time!

This was the dessert I made for the kids!  They loved it!

The best part of making dinner at our house was the leftovers!  I made enough ham to send some home with both families as well as having plenty leftover for us!


We are so thankful for the friends that God has brought into our lives.  We feel so blessed to have other families where the kids and the adults get along just as well!

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Celebrating!

We don't reward our kids for their grades like some of our friends do.  We want them to know that they need to work hard for their grades and put in the effort necessary to be successful because that is the expectation.  We want them to use the gifts God has given them to the best of their ability without doing it for a reward, such as money.  

One thing we started doing since we moved to Jax is to take them out for breakfast to celebrate their hard work each marking period.  Both kids once again pulled straight A's so we took them to the Beach Diner for breakfast on Saturday.  The nicest part is that we walked there and back and enjoyed some family time first thing in the morning.  These are precious family memories we are creating.  The kids really look forward to our breakfast celebrations because we don't typically go out for breakfast as a family unless we are celebrating grades (Andy's not a breakfast guy).  


I just love these two so much.  I am so thankful for the smarty pants that God has given us!  



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Sweet Friends

Sis had a birthday party on Good Friday.  I just love the girls in her grade at school.  She has some super sweet girlfriends and I just love the families they come from.  I am so thankful for the kids God has put in her life and pray that she continues to develop strong friendships with these girls.  





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Toothless!

My poor baby girl has lost 6 teeth so far and ALL of them have been pulled out by the dentist.  She had shark teeth on the bottom and her teeth didn't loosen on the front, only the back.  They pulled the two next to them because there wasn't enough room for her permanent teeth.

Her top teeth became loose in early December.  We went for our scheduled cleaning in January and our dentist thought for sure they'd be out in less than a month.  Well, 4 months later, they were still attached.  She bit down on a carrot last week and it shoved her tooth up into her gums and caused inflammation and pain.  She finally asked me to call the dentist to make an appt to have them pulled.  

She was super brave because she didn't like the numbing cream and the novocain caused her some discomfort too.  The dentist had to work really hard to get the first tooth out.  It was really loose, but wasn't letting go and kept slipping out of her tools.  The pressure and popping/cracking noises bothered her and brought some tears.  Blanca (our dentist) and I almost started crying along with her. Poor baby.  

Here she is with her new look after we got home.  You can see her lip was still swollen.  She stayed home from practice just incase she was in pain or the bleeding started back up again.


After dinner we walked down to the corner for some froyo as a reward for being so brave and making the difficult choice to have them removed.  

A visit from the tooth fairy didn't hurt either!  Our tooth fairy is very generous so she ended up with and extra $10!  (Yes, $5 a tooth is a lot, but our children don't get chore money unless they do extra chores outside of their assigned ones so this gives them a way to learn to manage money) 

I love listening to her talk now.  Her BFF is also missing her two front teeth so now they are really like twins!  Extra bonus!



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How Does Your Garden Grow?

I love gardening.  I fell in love with gardening when I lived in Albany and had summers filled with grad school. Gardening was such a relaxing and rewarding hobby.  I still love gardening - not as much here in the Sunshine state because of the heat and bugs, but I'm getting the hang of it.  Last year I had NO luck with my tomatoes.  Between the heat (not cool enough in the evenings) and the bugs eating my plants, I gave them up for this year.  Last year our peppers were awesome so I have 7+ hot peppers of numerous varieties.  I have cucumbers and zucchinis as well as some herbs and 44, yes FOURTY FOUR strawberry plants.  My kids love strawberries and blueberries.  I've added 2 more blueberry bushes so our total is now up to 17 blueberry bushes!  Sadly, that won't be enough to satisfy my kiddos.  Our cocktail tree is blooming and I'm looking to put another one in the front yard because it was such a hit with the kids last summer.  They loved freshly squeezed lemonade, limeade, and OJ as well as the grapefruits.

First time growing strawberries vertically.  Hoping for success because this saves us a lot of space on our tiny lot!  There are 4 big plants in the raised bed too.

Our blueberry bushes have TONS of berries!  Just have to keep the cardinals away from them!  I haven't put up the bird netting yet, but I need to do that so they don't eat the berries before the kids can!

We ripped out the ugly plants our landscaper put in by the pool - they left debris in the pool every week and were a pain.  I transplanted some plants from the front yard and planted some citronella to keep the skeeters away while in the pool at night.  I also had Andy hang the planters for me and planted the boxes.  I wanted them since we built our house and I'm so happy with how they turned out!  Our irrigation guys are coming over this week to set up drip lines for the strawberries and planters.  I also painted, distressed and waxed the sea horse this week.  I knew when I saw this sea horse in MOS Garden Shop over a year ago, it had to go here by our pool.  We love how it turned out!

Wish us luck with our gardening endeavors.  The weather and bugs in Florida can spoil the best of efforts!


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Thursday, April 2, 2015

Hair Do...Or Don't





She found this wig at our friends' house when we were over there last weekend for dinner. She always makes me laugh.