Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Our Little Gymnast

Sis has been nervous about gymnastics lately.  She's nervous because she knows she's less than 2 months out from her first meet.  They increased her practices from 2x a week to 3x a week.  She's now at the gym 7 1/2 hours a week and she's only 6!  Thankfully she's dealing with it pretty well.

She had a rough practice on Monday and it was the first time she came home in tears and wanting to quit.  I was in shock and slightly concerned, but chalked it up (like my gymnastics pun?) to the fact that she had a full day of school after 10 days off and then went right to practice and she was over tired and sensitive.  Her coach came to see me after practice yesterday to let me know what happened on Monday.  Here they had a super tough, physical workout on Monday and Sis was just worn out and that's what made everything seem worse!  After practice on Tuesday, she was all smiles and is back in love with gymnastics.  She also has another coach involved on Monday practices and the new coach was pretty tough on Sis.  It's a good learning experience to deal with personalities who you don't naturally mesh with and how to make those difficult situations work.  I told her that some of my best coaches were the toughest on me because they knew I could do better even if it they knew I was going to be mad and frustrated in the process.  It's a lot for my little one, but she's tough and handling it pretty well.

Here's her floor routine from practice last night:

After practice last night, she went upstairs to take a shower.  Usually she comes back downstairs to let us know she's ready to get tucked in.  Last night she never came back down.  Andy and I knew that meant she fell asleep somewhere...This is how we found her!



She was out cold!  I had to wake her to get her in bed.  It was the easiest tuck in ever!  



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Saturday, November 15, 2014

Tough Love

My kids have reminded me twice in less than 2 days that my "tough love" lessons are paying off.

Yesterday Ra had completely broken his glasses at school and required new frames.  I can't remember the number of times he's tweaked or broken a part of them since April when he got them.  This time he broke the side piece completely off.  I told him that this wasn't going to be an easy fix like the replacement nose pad from last week.  I was afraid we'd be spending money for new frames.  Thankfully his were still under warranty!  I was only required to pay a $15 shipping fee for the new frames.  What took me by surprise was that Ra immediately volunteered to pay for the shipping fee since he wasn't being responsible with them.  Wow!  What a proud mom moment.  This is a big deal because our kids do not get an allowance.  They are expected to do certain chores as a part of being in our family.  We do allow them opportunities to earn money by doing extra chores - things that aren't their responsibility.  This means Ra will have to do extra chores to earn the money to pay for his glasses, especially since he just spent money on a stuffed pig for his sister earlier this week.

This morning I woke up to my children cleaning their rooms and bathrooms without being told!  We had discussed the need to do it last night, but the fact that they both woke and started doing it first thing without a reminder was awesome.  Ra told me that he knew it needed to be done so he did it first thing so he could enjoy the rest of his Saturday.  Sis saw him doing his room and bathroom and decided to work on her's.  He's such a great example for her.

As we are in the month of November and as Thanksgiving is approaching, I''m trying to look for the qualities in my kids that I've been striving for them to develop.  I'm looking for behavior to be thankful for in my children.  When I see those characteristics, I am pointing them out to my kids so they feel encouraged to repeat that behavior.  During those times when I feel like a failure as a mom, when I feel like I really screwed up an opportunity with them, it's moments like these that remind me that I've done something right.

I am often venturing through this parenting thing solo with all of Andy's travel.  It  makes it hard to teach those "tough love" lessons because the "mom guilt" often seeps in and makes me question if I'm being too hard on them.  Many times I'm calling Andy to check if he agrees with the decisions I've made.  I want us to both be on the same page.  I know I'm tough on them - mostly because I want them to be confident, independent, responsible members of society.  I'm often the only one with them and that leaves me to be the "heavy" most times.  The other morning it was cold and I told my kids to dress warmly in long sleeves and pants or leggings/tights under a skort.  Ra decided to ignore my directions and wear shorts and shorts sleeves, without a coat.  I dropped them off at school with the temps in the upper 40's with a light wind.  It was only supposed to warm up to near 60.  There was a part of me that wanted to turn the car around and take him home to get warmer clothes, but he made a choice to ignore my instructions so I sent him to school as is.  I'm sure the teachers thought "Why did his mom let him dress like this when it's cold out?" but I figured he needed to be cold for a day to learn to listen to his mom.  I knew he'd have recess and patrol duty outside.  When I came to pick him up from patrol duty, I found him inside because it was "too cold" to wait outside for mom!  Maybe there was a lesson learned...

Parenting is hard work.  Sometimes we get it right and sometimes we mess it up.  I have to keep reminding myself that we aren't perfect parents and our kids aren't perfect either.  If I was a perfect parent, my children would have no need for God in their life.  They need to see me looking to Jesus so they will continue to look to Him as well...None of us are perfect, but we are made new in Christ and that is the most important lesson I can teach my children.




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Thursday, November 13, 2014

Fly Eagles Fly!

 Monday Night Football featured the Philadelphia Eagles against the Carolina Panthers.  My two little ones have decided it's time to be full fledged Eagles fans like their Momma.  Ra has taken over my old McNabb jersey because I'm too cheap to spend money on one for him right now.  This is a big deal in our house because Daddy is a hardcore Dallas fan.  It gets ugly in our house at least 2x a year!

Ra and Dad watching MNF
























The game was too exciting for Sis...She didn't even make it to kick off!

Ra went to bed around 9 but asked me to record the game.  First thing Tuesday morning, he asked if the Eagles won and if he could watch the game.  Love that boy of mine!!!

And YES the Eagles won 45-21!!!



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Not Much Ag at the Agriculture Fair

I have only been to Jax's Ag Fair one other time and I remember being not very impressed but that was back when Sis was either a baby or wasn't born yet.  I can't remember if she went with me or not.  I figured since the fair was opening at noon on Veteran's Day and we were in the same part of town, we might as well hit it up.  I chose not to buy my kids wrist bands to ride the rides.  Fair rides always make me a bit nervous.  I always wonder how safe they really are to ride, plus I'm taking the kids to Disney in two weeks so they will get their fill of rides there.

As we were walking through the fair, it was easy to notice that the Ag Fair is about 10% Ag and about 90% Fair.  There was one small building housing animals.  a few rows of bunnies, roosters & hens, a few peeps, a pig and her babes, some goats and sheep then a small section of cows - mostly steers but a few Jersey cows.

This cutie pie was brand new.  Ra thought it was a deer at first!  He's use to seeing holsteins in Lancaster.


There was another building that was mostly empty but housed the UF Cooperative Extension.  I was able to gather some information from them about how to help my tomatoes from all the leaf eating bugs and how to get my soil tested for my blueberries.  In this building were some old cars that Ra enjoyed seeing.  He spotted the sprint car below right away and wanted to take a few pics for his Pappy to see.



We watched a cute pig race while we were there.  The kids thought they were hysterical.  These pigs jumped into water and swam across a large trough to the other side, climbed out and finished the race.  I had no clue pigs could swim.  They will do just about anything to get that cookie at the finish line!  After the pig races, they announcer was selling stuffed pigs.  Sis wanted one but she still owes me money from when she dropped my iPad and cracked the screen.  It takes a 6 year old a long time to earn back $160!  Little Man decided he had enough money at home and he asked to borrow the money so HE could buy it for her.  My heart burst with joy.  I asked him why he decided to buy it for her and he said because he never buys her anything and he wanted to do that for her...Oh my.  I've done something right as a mom!


I guess this will be our last time to visit the fair.  I've been spoiled growing up in Lancaster County and being around animals all the time.  The Pennsylvania Farm Show is a huge event that we always looked forward to every year - even though it always snows during Farm Show week.  There were lots of local fairs like Lampeter and Manheim.  Oh well...It was worth trying it again.  The kids had fun regardless though.  

 

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We Salute You



I feel so blessed to live in a military town and for our kids to get to see service men and women on a regular basis.  They have friends' who's parents serve and can see firsthand the sacrifice that their entire family makes for our country.  Jacksonville is home to over 200,000 service men and women as well as numerous Jr. ROTC programs.  On Veteran's Day I took the kids downtown to the Veteran's Day parade to celebrate those who've dedicated their lives to protect our freedom.  We had a great time at the parade.

The start of the parade was near the Jags stadium.  We parked there and walked towards the big flag being flown by the JFRD.  It looked so majestic.

Sissy brought her Eagle named Liberty and we had flags to wave and dressed in red, white and blue!

The Navy band

Ra loved all the tanks and trucks that rolled through the parade







We had a great time watching all the groups march by - Veteran supporters, American Legion groups, businesses, and ROTC units as well as local commanders from all the different bases located here in the town - Navy (NAS Jax and NS Mayport), Marines (Blount Island), Army (Camp Blanding) Florida Air National Guard (125th Fighter Wing located at the Jax airport), & Coast Guard (located in Atlantic Beach near Mayport).

It was a great way to spend our morning off from school.  We are proud of our military here in Jax.  I love walking into a store and being asked if I'm military when I check out - a lot of stores offer discounts to military families and I think that's such a great way for our community to give back!

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Saturday, November 8, 2014

a busy Saturday

Every marking period we reward the kids with a breakfast at one of their favorite places.  The kids get really excited about going out for breakfast.  Both kids earned all A's on their report cards this quarter so Sissy picked the Beach Diner.  Andy was sick in bed (guess his trip to Arizona caught up with him) so the kids and I rode our bikes over to the diner.

They love getting hot chocolate topped with LOTS of whipped cream!

Afterwards we rode over to Bio-Max to pick up some ACF to fight off the cold and flu season that's upon us and then rode bikes along Beach Ave home.

Andy finally got up after we got home.  He looked like death warmed over so we walked over to Russell Park to collect pine cones for a Christmas craft.  We walked through Howell Park, which is a really cool nature park with lots of walking paths and different types of plants, trees and animals.  

After collecting over 2 dozen big pine cones, playing on the jungle gym and throwing football, we headed back home.  

You know you're a gymnast when every piece of equipment at the playground is just another way to practice your routines!  She's a gym rat in the making.


Now what to do with them after lunch?  I'm already exhausted!  ;)


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Poor Baby...

My poor baby girl was sick for 2+ days this week.  There is a bug going around the first grade.  She stayed home with me on Wed and Thurs.  We had a lot of snuggles and she helped me clean up around the house.  She never did nap even though I put her down on both days...I'm glad we decided to keep her home because she sounds a 100% better!  We pumped her full of vitamin C, zinc, elderberry juice and fluids.  I think it might have helped.  I'm just happy she's back to her energetic, healthy self!

Watching Maleficent while eating lunch together...


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Tuesday, November 4, 2014

It's Never Too Early!

My kids will tell you that I have a hard core rule at our house.  No celebrating Christmas until after Thanksgiving.  I am really bothered by stores that put out their Christmas decorations before Halloween and stores that are open on Thanksgiving.

For this year only, I'm softening on that rule.  And there's good reason for it - We won't be home over Thanksgiving week and we are hitting the slopes with our Utah family after Christmas.  We won't be home much to enjoy all the work it takes to set everything up.  It's also a new house, so I'm excited to decorate it and make or buy new items to make our home a coastal Christmas paradise!

Today I started on some new Christmas decorations.  A few years a go I did some salt dough ornaments with stamping for present tags.  They turned out so awesome!  I saw THIS idea on Pinterest and thought, I can do that!  I'll either use them as ornaments on our tree or sting them up with some twine for a garland.  I plan to spray paint mine a white color (I used Real Salt brand salt and it's not dyed so it's this natural color) and then spray them with an acrylic sealant.


When we were kids, we made salt dough ornaments with my mom.  It was fun to use cookie cutter and paint our own ornaments.  Here's a simple recipe for it:
2 c. flour
1 c. salt
3/4-1 c water

After shaping the ornaments (and don't forget to include the hole if you plan to use them for an ornament), place them on a cookie sheet and dry them for a few hours in the oven set to 200.

Here are some other ideas I have in mind for our decorations this year.  You can use the same recipe, use a shell cookie cutter and then a stamp before drying them.



Here is the same idea with an ink stamp like I did a few years ago:

I can't wait to get things decorated.  After not even having a tree (our felt tree on the wall doesn't count) last year, this year it will look like Christmas threw up on our house!  


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How To Create Your Own Shabby Chic Furniture

After a number of requests, this post is designed to help those interested in using chalk paint and creating that shabby chic look to their furniture.  I'm fortunate in that there are numerous little shops here at the beaches that sells coastal shabby chic furniture.  A lot of these stores will also teach you how to create your own masterpieces.

When it comes to using chalk paint, there are many options.  Annie Sloan is a very popular line and can be found in many places around the country.  I have been using a local paint that has started to go nationwide.  It's made by a cute little shop here in Jax Beach called Echo at the Beach.  They have their own paint line called Echo Furniture Paint.  Echo's paint was just featured at the Jax Home & Garden show and has been aired on HGTV!  They have a variety of coastal colors.  Another shop a few blocks south called Saltologie has their own paint line called Paint de la mar.  All of their colors are named after local places like Aqua East (our favorite local surf shop), Mojo's (after our favorite BBQ joint), Casa Marina (after a fabulous roof top bar/restaurant that sits oceanfront in Jax Beach) and Salt Life (after a Jax Beach clothing store and restaurant).  I haven't tried theirs yet, but I'd like to at some point.  Another little place here in Atlantic Beach is called Sugarfoot Chic and they sell a chalk paint additive so you can turn any paint you like into chalk paint.  They also make the wax I use called Dirty Wax.  Dirty Wax comes in a number of different colors and is what I prefer because it is all organic and not harmful to you or the environment.

Using chalk paint is the easiest way to refinish your furniture.  The furniture we had been using in our homes had always looked well in each house, but now that we've built a coastal styled beach house, we needed some updates so instead of buying a lot of new stuff, I painted some of the things we had and made them look brand new!

Chalk paint doesn't require much if any prep work.  There is no need to sand, strip or prime your piece before you begin. Just remove any hardware you don't want painted, clean your item and you can get started!  

Which brush to use?

It's best if you use a brush with synthetic fibers you will have the best luck.  It will provide you with a smooth finish and will absorb less paint.  Echo's paint is easy to clean as well.  I just wash my brushes out with water.

How to create your masterpiece?  
Paint your item with 1-2 coats of chalk paint.  Even in humidity, chalk paint doesn't take too long to dry which means you can get a small project completed in one day.  

Once you have the desired amount of paint on your project, you can distress the piece.  I use sandpaper to wear down the edges and corners.  HERE is a great link to a blog post showing you how to distress your piece.  

After you are pleased with the distressed look of your project, you will need to seal the paint with wax.  Dirty Wax comes in a variety of colors which means you can have endless combinations of final looks.  I apply my wax with a brush like this:

After I apply the wax, I use a clean rag to rub off any excess.  It's THAT easy!  There are a number of videos, tutorials, etc on the links I posted as well as on my Shabby Chic Board on Pinterest. 

This project was my first attempt.  I loved the color and how it turned out - but changed my mind on the color when I changed the colors in my daughter's quilt.  For this project, I used Echo's Beach Spa and clear Dirty Wax.

This is the redo to make it match better.  I used Echo's Bungaloo Blue with White Dirty Wax.

This piece was painted in Echo's Jax Beach color with Dirty Wax's Mud Pie.


 For this project I used Echo's Manatee with Coffee Hold the Cream Dirty Wax.

This piece was painted with Echo's Egret Wing which is a white, then sealed with Dirty Wax's Mud Pie.

A great way to determine what color wax you prefer is to paint and wax an interior space - like within the drawer area shown above in the armoire.  No one will see it and you can wipe off the wax once you decide.  


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Trick Or Treat!

Getting the pumpkins ready for the kids to carve

The kids each carved their own pumpkin this year.  Momma did the little Frankenstein, Sis carved the cat and Ra carved the happy face.

Andy had a costume contest at work - Living out his alter ego at work.


Ready for the 5th Street Block Party!!!

Our Roman soldier and Flamenco dancer

The kids from the 'hood getting ready for the street parade and eating ghoulish snacks

The treats I made for our block party.  Yummo!

We had so much fun on Halloween.  Sadly Ra got a little sick in the stomach and his night ended early.  The rest of us headed over to the Benz's house - they live a few blocks away - and hung out there for the rest of the night.  We are so fortunate to have found new friends and "family" here at the beach.

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